I think I have dating anxiety - I’m in the process of looking for a relationship, being sucked down internet rabbit-holes, making me think too much about it. I guess I just need some rest.
IMHO, it’s not about how unique the acts during sex are, but how pure the emotion is. That feeling of getting to be your vulnerable, true self without fear of judgement is a rare one. It’s trippy.
Freedom from desire of other people’s validation is one of the biggest freedoms you can achieve in life. That is actually when you start being your own person.
It’s truly a pity to be defined just by your beauty and be seen as no more than that, sometimes you might just want to be left alone without having to hide it for that.
I guess in our lives, while we’re deluded by the fact that we’re alive, we’re actually rarely “alive”. We’re mostly scurrying through, in our bubbles, clouded with expectations, fears. Life, just by being aware of our aliveness, can be an overwhelming experience.
Guess I’m just running after the anticipation of intimacy, a rush of serotonin and dopamine which just ends when you’ve cummed. Makes the whole thing a bit hollow, and leaves me a bit guilty.
I think we share pics not only to impress, but to express. The teenage girl may be exploring their femininity, the woman may be feeling like herself. I guess we can just be appreciative in that case and not assume any indications :x
Out of all the possible identities I could don on this site (including that of a well-endowed too-good-to-be-true babe), I chose to be an average guy very close to my own self :x