When you see someone posting an ad on a dating app about looking for someone that lives near a given subway station and can drive, you realize two kinds of people exist on that platform.
One, who'd be ready to exploit someone's need for emotional support/intimacy just to save money.
Two, the guys who set their bars so low they'd be happy to be exploited, as long as there's possibility of some connection.
If you can only attract a partner after you've achieved success, then what do I need the partner for? What's their role in making me who I am? If I'm supposed to do all the heavylifting alone, why do I have to share the fruits that I grew alone, with someone who just came after those fruits were ripe.
Just a word of caution folks - Whatever you see or read in OFC has to be your little secret. Take nothing of this abnormality into the real life or consequences will be yours to bear. My job is to warn ya.(shrugs)