You shouldn't really associate your self worth with how much you earn, whether your partner is a catch, whether you even have a partner and other thousands of stupid metrics. Because you need to have your self worth the most when you have nothing.
If ever you find misery inside you, consume it, process it, soon, you'll smile despite it. You'll see it in others, you'll want them to smile. And so, they'll find solace in you. That's how you become the escape from misery despite being full of it, just because you've become a diamond in extreme pressure.