.. "Well said" .. '6 of 0ne & half a dozen of the 0ther', as my old mum would say, and as you said, I am not reluctant to, 'go in strong' when flirting. What I tend to do these days, is go to 'private conversations' with a girl, then it's Just between the two of us, however we decide to play it...
It's all about context and attitude.. 'cover her fucking face' is just plain nasty .. polite? .. I said 'Thanks but No Thanks' .. then, you asked me for an explanation .. I think you want to 'have' your cake .. And eat [dunk] it to .
.. My attitude is this .. You used a tone of 'voice' .. a 'choice' of words .. that asked others to Support one of your Misogynist fantasies. I think most people on here can tell the difference .. and what happens is they just stop ..Joining in .. enjoy your tea ..