About your spouse...

Nisha3089

Nisha3089

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Hey peeps, just a thought came in my mind... Why people come on the sites like these?? Most people will answer self pleasure right? Mental or physical.. I can understand for those who are single and don't want to go prostitute these sites are the best options.. but hello we do have many married people here and even couples and everyone has his or her own reason to be here. I am creating this thread for those who are not mentally or physically satisfied with their spouse. So just do one things.. describe whatever you feel about your spouse.. be it good, bad worst pitty whatever it may be.. let's make it clear as crystal... :)
 
Not too many people have responded. So I may at least.

Well, my husband is heavily into porn. Which is good and bad at the same time.
Bad, I don't get as much sex as I could. And the women in these movies made me feel inadequate at times.
Good, he is always satisfied and won't be after other women. Plus, I can refer to his movies or masturbation ritual when I am tired and he will do as I tell him and go masturbate.

Over the years I got used to it and he assures that he just needs the quick release even though it takes him hours sometimes to be finally completely satisfied. He even will watch porn and masturbate after we had sex. On the other hand his movies and ideas opened up a new world to me full of arousal and kink, which I like very much as well. Which sometimes we use as inspiration.

So as always, the world is not black and white. I am here mainly because, I like to learn what other people do and what turns them on. There are countless phenomenons and fetishes that people like to share or exchange ideas about with likeminded ones. I guess, this is a big reason why people are here.

Let me know what you all think,
how you manage your marital sex life and what turns you all on.
And have fun!
 
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On here because my wife has become a miserable ,selfcentered bitch,,,, we havent had (anything) to do with each other in 7 years but argue,, so im on here to talk n play with women who might be interested...
 
Dorothy72 said:
Not too many people have responded. So I may at least.

Well, my husband is heavily into porn. Which is good and bad at the same time.
Bad, I don't get as much sex as I could. And the women in these movies made me feel inadequate at times.
Good, he is always satisfied and won't be after other women. Plus, I can refer to his movies or masturbation ritual when I am tired and he will do as I tell him and go masturbate.

Over the years I got used to it and he assures that he just needs the quick release even though it takes him hours sometimes to be finally completely satisfied. He even will watch porn and masturbate after we had sex. On the other hand his movies and ideas opened up a new world to me full of arousal and kink, which I like very much as well. Which sometimes we use as inspiration.

So as always, the world is not black and white. I am here mainly because, I like to learn what other people do and what turns them on. There are countless phenomenons and fetishes that people like to share or exchange ideas about with likeminded ones. I guess, this is a big reason why people are here.

Let me know what you all think,
how you manage your marital sex life and what turns you all on.
And have fun!
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Bone said:
On here because my wife has become a miserable ,selfcentered bitch,,,, we havent had (anything) to do with each other in 7 years but argue,, so im on here to talk n play with women who might be interested...
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7 years is a looong time in what seems to be a terrible situation. I hope I'm not too direct, but I'm curious now... Why are you staying together if things are that bad?
 
Irene_Adler said:
7 years is a looong time in what seems to be a terrible situation. I hope I'm not too direct, but I'm curious now... Why are you staying together if things are that bad?
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#1,, ive worked way to long n hard,, over 100 hours a week to get what i have n refuse to walk away from it n lose it all,,,, #2,, if i left her shed be totally fkd with not working n noone to support her,,, maybe stupid but im not the guy who can do that to a woman,,, so i just basically pretty much live in my rig workin all the time n do what i gotta do
 
Nisha3089 said:
Hey peeps, just a thought came in my mind... Why people come on the sites like these?? Most people will answer self pleasure right? Mental or physical.. I can understand for those who are single and don't want to go prostitute these sites are the best options.. but hello we do have many married people here and even couples and everyone has his or her own reason to be here. I am creating this thread for those who are not mentally or physically satisfied with their spouse. So just do one things.. describe whatever you feel about your spouse.. be it good, bad worst pitty whatever it may be.. let's make it clear as crystal... :)
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Maybe this Q was asked with good, innocent curiosity, but it's being received [by me] as a trap Q, where in the end, that person will end up being ridiculed by single people as to why you're still with the person, as if it's a high school fling. So...ill pass.
 
Bone said:
#1,, ive worked way to long n hard,, over 100 hours a week to get what i have n refuse to walk away from it n lose it all,,,, #2,, if i left her shed be totally fkd with not working n noone to support her,,, maybe stupid but im not the guy who can do that to a woman,,, so i just basically pretty much live in my rig workin all the time n do what i gotta do
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I understand... Thank you for replying and being honest.

zfta said:
Ever heard the phrase "Don't cling to a mistake just because you spend a lot of time making it" ?
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As simple as this sounds, it is never easy. Especially when it comes to long-term relationships, and especially when there are children involved.
 
Hi Nisha3089 -
I feel u girl. For sure. I decided right now today that while browsing fir a Q &A website/chat room that I was gonna drift towards a sexy chat room becuz I AM in a relationship. And I do have alot of problems and confusion in my relationship. I am 28 years old white girl in california and im dating a 6'6' tall black guy about 4 or 5 years older than me. And I love him so much. But I didnt start off that way. I had to learn to love him and he really like born n im just getting into it and figuring out what i like and I just keep finding myself in all girl everything . lesbian this . girl on girl that. And Idk... I like this thread u put up tho.
Id appreciate a reply back from u asap if u dont mind please n thnx.
Suhnnysideuhp tho.
 
Athletic_fit said:
Don't worry. You made my point.
Btw why are you on this thread when you're unable to relate. You dont need to answer. Just odd.
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Ahaha, you are funny. "Smart people learn from their mistakes, wise people learn from other's mistakes, dumb people never learn." Maybe we aren't in the same category here. You don't even know me, and you deny me the right to have an opinion, and you will just complain because "single people are attacking me". I was waiting for your answer, to try to be polite and understanding (thanks to Irene <3)... but you don't even want to discuss, all you want is someone else to tell you that you are right. Let me tell you something, there is no right or wrong in that situation. All opinions are valid, and you can have one even if you can't relate to the exact same situation.
 
Not interested in getting into you two's dispute on this, but just wanna make one thing clear on it,,,, Its not a matter of being smart or dumb on learning from it,,, bottom line is when your with someone for 32 years its not like ya drop everything n end it,, and yea we may not get along most times anymore but we do still love each other,, so I guess thats why were still together,,, understand it or not, thats fine either way,, its one of those things you'll never understand untill you've lived it....
 
There is no such thing as "you'll never understand it untill you've lived it...". I don't say my point of view is the right one, and yours is wrong. I totally get it, and I wasn't trying to offend you or anything with what I said. As I said, there is no wrong or right answer in that situation. It's a matter of choice, not a matter of "You can't understand what it is" or "You should do this because I say so".
I just tell you what I think I would do (and what I actually did in the past, even if somebody here think i'm not "qualified" to talk about that topic).
But whatever you do, you do it for yourself, so yeah. No right or wrong. =)
 
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