Paying for sex..

Have you paid for sex?


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Thanks to those who have replied.
I noticed in the Poll that more people who have said no, yet there are more comments from people who have/would.
I'd like to hear some reasons from the 'nos' as to why not? and how this differs from say paying someone for another service.
Also, those who have said no, do you also not watch porn? never had a lap-dance? never watched a cam-girl?
Where is the line you draw when it comes to 'paying for sex' ?
 
I think that maybe paying takes some of the stress out of it, except then you gotta worry about getting arrested.

Personally I think it should be legalized and while we are it let's make more happy ending massage parlors.
 
It's legal here. But the risk of getting arrested in some places is a good reason why people wouldn't be up for it. Or maybe some people like the thrill.
 
No the thrill of getting arrested is not for me. The times I have paid for an escort I have tried to be extremely careful. There are ways and sites to help with that
 
Also, those who have said no, do you also not watch porn? never had a lap-dance? never watched a cam-girl? Where is the line you draw when it comes to 'paying for sex' ?

I have been to more or less explicit sex shows. In Vegas they are pretty harmless but in Amsterdam and Hamburg they have been quite intense, like porn one could say. My hubby got a lapdance but did not cum as he is too shy for it with strangers. So in a sense we have payed for sex. But not for actual intercourse. This is were we have drawn the line so far.
Of course we have watched porn.
 
I have been to more or less explicit sex shows. In Vegas they are pretty harmless but in Amsterdam and Hamburg they have been quite intense, like porn one could say. My hubby got a lapdance but did not cum as he is too shy for it with strangers. So in a sense we have payed for sex. But not for actual intercourse. This is were we have drawn the line so far.
Of course we have watched porn.

Being married, fair enough if that why there's a line for intercourse. But if that were not the case would you? and if not why/how is that different from the services you have paid for?

p.s. I don't know about in the US but in the UK it's kind of frowned upon to cum during a lapdance.
 
You ask interesting questions. Well, the most important reason for not having intercourse with people outside the marriage is that I don't what anybody to fall in love with someone else. Another reason is the danger of STD. That's why I always told my husband to use rubbers in case he wants to have fun with a hooker. So I have allowed him to go. But as far as I know he didn't. One thing that I'd like to do is to go to a dominatrix with him, which is safe as he basically only would jerk off there. For myself the idea is not that exciting as I do not necessarily need to climax anyway. So for me watching handsome men in a sexshow ist plenty enough.

The difference for me is whether or not one will have physical contact or if it's just watching.

p.s. I see, never knew that.
 
Yeah,I did a couple time way back when I was 18 with all other 5 of my buddies.We ran a train on her bareback & creampie luckily we're all clean.I wasn't the first so consider sloppy 2nd.I at first felt gross to their sperm smell but got exited once inside which her cunt so slippery.I finally told my wife about it while I fucked her & as a result she is curious to try under one condition is her privacy need to be kept.
 
I have countless times ...when in war zones you don't have a social life. Back home at least once a week suck job, she was good and really nice.
 
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