Tips for being 'Popular' on this site (even though I'm the wrong person to write this)

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AkshayGoodOne

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Hey,

I just make frequent visits to this site and see lots of horny people doing foolish things and getting swamped from all sides, ultimately falling into the vicious pool of frustration. They certainly disturb others through their misconceptions and helplessness, and getting thwarted because of that leads to a damaged self-esteem which ultimately leads to hurting themselves as well.

It is true that an online presence such as this one gives you the opportunity to present yourselves very unlike your real, potentially drab persona, and come up as a killer guy or girl being the talk of this site. I congratulate you for your desire for appreciation and approval. That, if you get from people, may be your life force and you may finally heal yourself with that, ending up doing positive and thoughtful things in life. But, that's not easy to obtain here, or anywhere in life, because, lets face it, you're not the smartest or the most successful person who could get anyone doing whatever you wish with just a gaze - That's far from real. You are a NOBODY, and there's nothing wrong in accepting that. Everywhere in life, you shall have to start with nothing and slowly act in the process of being a desirable and pleasant personality. Yeah, I know you're Horny, you want to do all that those mindless pornographic videos made you fantasize and most importantly you want to feel needed. But there are better ways of achieving that than coming out as a creep and sending your dick pics to every random girl you come across.

Mark my words - Being acceptable requires time and patience. Come on, be a human, understand others, educate yourselves with their attitudes towards life. Be someone who can be trusted. Have the capability to mend a soul, and you'll know what it is to feel really happy. If sex attracts you only because you get pleasure from it, I can predict that you are going to leave your partners a bit dissatisfied with you in that regard. You like winning, right? Win that person's heart. Make them moan with your efforts, let them fly with you to the next level of pleasure. Winning requires thought and planning. That's the battle for approval. Everyone's fighting it. Remember who you are - Honesty may not be a big turn-on for them, but Dishonesty with them is a big turn-off certainly.

Sorry, I got carried away, as I kept in mind those cheesy people who actually needed this rant. Anyways, back to my points for gaining popularity, just according to me.

1. Have pride in who you are.
2. Have pride in who others are.
3. Have pride in your tendency to make mistakes.
4. Have pride in your ability to forgive others' mistakes.
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Like really? Are we still doing this Checklist thing? You know what - This letter does not attempt you to teach something. You're already better than the writer himself. He just feels you're lost somewhere. Your validation for yourself needs to come from within you. And see, I'm letting this snippet for success out for just free.!!!

You just need to portray your real self. Be a person about lot many things. Be a story, for people need and adore stories after food, cloth and shelter. Be another world! Be an enigma, save yourself from becoming boring. Okay! Its fine that you're horny, but again, don't just be only about it. Add dimensions to sex. Make sex seem like another world...write odes for it, come up with different ideas to celebrate and express it, draw, sing and speak about it, but just not the same thing over and over again. If you're drinking that elixir, take a full gulp of it and end up being highly gratified about it, rather than falling deep into dissatisfaction and frustration.

Come on ! Even a bot can imitate a horny guy or girl at this site. If you don't want people to treat you like one, don't act like one!

Its actually rather tasteless that a Google Image or a poor quality JPEG of boobs can make you lose control of yourself. You wanna possess everything you see, but look carefully, you're being possessed by what you sought to possess at the first place. You can easily be compromised, sad to say that.

Well, if you came for tips for being popular, then I'm sure I couldn't help you. The truth is, I am no Guru. Even I ain't popular here. I think I might be innately a creep like those I'm ranting, because I'm equally desperately curious about things. But, at the end of the day, I hate being disgusted at and people, especially strangers may very easily make you feel that. I want to 'belong' as well. So I'm evolving. I'm even growing as I write this piece. As I'd end this letter, I'd be a more mature person. So here, I ascertain my metamorphosis.
 
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