I've been married almost nine years we've been together for ten. We have four kids and he has a busy job and is gone alot. I have a high sex drive and he'd rather go to bars and play video games after work says that he can't be here and needs to cool down. This site is a great escape for me...
I personally think its a type of high like when girls like to be cuffed. Me personally like to be held down wile be fucked from behind and very rough. Its most likely something best left to fantasy or with a trusted partner with a safe word.