It seems everyone is putting up new profile post lately, and it is looking kind of bleak at the moment... I know reality and the real world sucks, but the only way out of this is to work on yourself, every day. You can ditch the victim story, you can leave the pain behind and focus on how you...
You must value yourself enough, to take the time EVERY SINGLE DAY to work on you. To engage in something, that will ensure you are a positive influence on the world.