I'm trying to attract women online and irl, but it's not working. Online, they either ignore me or turn out to be spammers. Irl, I feel like a creep even looking because I'm 44 and attracted to ones in their 20s.
People online have attention spans about <-----> this big it isn't your fault bro. Try putting yourself out there more, start with idle chat, build a foundation of trust/find common ground, and go from there.
Don't be afraid to make small talk here. It just takes time and paitence ike all thinggs in life. As for irl alot of women like older men. Don't put yourself down or feel like you are inadequate either.