I know the feeling and I took care of all the sheets and everything right away to. I have also had sex in a number of other people beds with out telling them. Some of them I cleaned the sheets or the girl I was with did; but there were some that were left messy.
I cannot lie..... That's why I always try to change it up every time I sext. Got to be careful and keep yourself from becoming repetitive. It also depends on my partner and how much they interact. The less they participate the more I lose interest.
I cannot lie... I'm slowly leaning towards 35% chat 65% forums more recently. However that's only time I'm not writing or drawing something for someone on here.