If my wife loved eating pussy, I would encourage her to continue! That is beyond sexy, and a major turn on.
If my wife ate pussy, I would wait until her lover was lying on the bed with legs spread wide. My wife would crawl towards her and begin massging her cunt with her tongue. They both...
You are, without a doubt, the sexiest 40 year old I've ever had the joy of getting hard to. Your eyes, your tits, your ass... I would carress and kiss every inch of you and pound your pussy as you so definitely deserve!