I confess I'd rather masterbate than make love to my wife.

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BillyJ

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She is 5'-4", 125 very cute 34B, and loves to have sex but with my performance anxiety, its easier not to try. I either get hard and cum as soon as I enter her, or I go soft.
 
If you give up then your situation will never get better and you really want to masturbate over having real sex? Really? I mean, really? I hate masturbating compared to sex.

Are you being open to your partner? The only way to get better is to be really open with your partner. Talk about things. Also when in sex, try to take your mind off all the sex or go slower in your thrust. If you go in all hard thrusts and in the best position your going to cum quickly. Go slow at times and do positions which don't always work for you so that you last longer.

Also the going soft thing, it will get better (if you havent had a partner for a while or haven't had sex for ages, it can sometimes have an effect and takes a while for your cock to work at its best, if that makes sense) but you have to keep at it with your girl and talk about things else you will never get better.
 
I can relate to this. It's been I would rather watch porn and Jack off than have sex with her at times. I think it's ok at times to do something different. I started to invite her to start masturbating with me so she was a part of it.
 
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