That all the pretty colours in the world ain't gonna sugar coat the way I feel today. It's like this, my husband has always used sex in our relationship as a glue. We have little or nothing in common, but our sex was always ok. Now unfortunately I feel like he's just using me for self gratification. Yesterday he sent me a pic of his cock, then he proceeded to jerk off and told me he'd cum. Later on he lay next to me .. I'm supposed to know he's horny here. We did nothing. Then very much later on, after 3 hours of sleep he decides to shove his cock in my mouth and then lie back and wait for me to suck him off. Yeah, you can imagine what I thought. I was upset. Then the next morning I catch him looking at porn and jerking off. Is it just me, or is he completely oblivious to my needs here? No foreplay, no desire to please me. Let's just say I'm now completely turned off sex. I feel like an unattractive blob. Why doesn't he listen to me.