I have a question for you, if you take offense than please just don't answer. I mean no harm, but I am curious as to why married folks might be on this site. I've considered a few different options: 1. You and your spouse are both members and spend time here as well as in life. 2. You are unhappy in your relationship and are escaping here (if so, I might suggest counseling or some form of resolving the unhappiness, you did get married for a reason I would assume, can the spark be reignited?) 3. You just hang out here, not so much for the sake of sexting or whatnot, just to spend time with the folks you know and like. If this is the case, does your spouse know what type of site this is? Do they care? Or whatever else the situation is. I'm curious because if I wasn't currently single, I wouldn't come on here very often or possibly at all. If I was married I cannot see me being on here again. So what is your story?