Masterbation to someone u should not crave?

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At the risk of being too focused on the actual question: Dreams are a function of the brain. Most people have experienced dreams of a sexual nature that result in orgasm with no physical manipulation of the genital organs. So that proves that not only can people "get off" with just their thoughts but also that it is rather common. Aside from the dream aspect it is also fairly common for people to orgasm prior to penetration. I had a 19 year old virgin boyfriend a few years ago and he ejaculated before he penetrated me. It is true that I was holding him penis and guiding it into place so there was some limited physical contract but I think he was ready to ejaculate anyway. So that again shows that mental excitement can be enough to trip the switch. On the other hand, other than in dreams, I have never been able to get off just from thinking. I have come close a few times while watching certain themes in porn but I usually end up touching myself when I get excited like that so I don't really know if just watching would take me there or not. It sounds like I need to set up an experiment or two.
Thats true. For a woman its important to have full connect mind heart genitals. For a man its situational. For a man who is new to sex a good female in front and little contact can make him to orgasm though he might not want it, and would be dreaming of a marathon session. But thats how testes and penis works. Exitement of mind can make a male experience orgasm. On the other hand even a very beautiful lady as per the desire of a man can make him cum fast. Its mind body desire and hunger that rules a male. As per what i have experienced. Love your detailed view shelly.
 

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At the risk of being too focused on the actual question: Dreams are a function of the brain. Most people have experienced dreams of a sexual nature that result in orgasm with no physical manipulation of the genital organs. So that proves that not only can people "get off" with just their thoughts but also that it is rather common. Aside from the dream aspect it is also fairly common for people to orgasm prior to penetration. I had a 19 year old virgin boyfriend a few years ago and he ejaculated before he penetrated me. It is true that I was holding him penis and guiding it into place so there was some limited physical contract but I think he was ready to ejaculate anyway. So that again shows that mental excitement can be enough to trip the switch. On the other hand, other than in dreams, I have never been able to get off just from thinking. I have come close a few times while watching certain themes in porn but I usually end up touching myself when I get excited like that so I don't really know if just watching would take me there or not. It sounds like I need to set up an experiment or two.
Nicely written, I'd just wanna argue the example of your virgin boyfriend to prove mental excitement is enough for orgasm. In your case, he was open to the prospect of having sex, so he wasn't "imagining and thinking about" sex with you. He was actually into the act, and probably had other physical stimulations (kissing, touching, even putting a condom on, you holding his penis which you mentioned) , and because the experience was so novel a sudden surge of pleasure hormones indicated the sexual organs to ejaculate.But your point is correct - Mental stimulation towards orgasm is possible, but the switch to actuate an orgasm is coupled with genital stimulation or any other physical stimulation, however unobtrusive. That's why some sort of simulation is necessary for orgasm.Dreams are a different case - your mind tricks you into believing you're engaging into a sexual act. In your dreams, you're most often dreaming of some stimulus or may even be having sex in its proper sense.
You can get horny simply by thinking, but I doubt you can get an orgasm by sheer power of thought.There has to be a stimulus of touch,could even be rubbing of your thighs against one another, or rubbing of your genitalia against the fabric of your underwear.
 

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I find it very tough to get to an orgasm just by thought. But I know some girlfriends who said they could and they ... well.. they never lie to me. I have tried.. but usually the easiest way to get me to cum is to kiss or bite my neck. Jesus.. that gets me all the time.
 

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There is the resident who works with my doctor. She's cute.
 

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My next door neighbour - shes a married milf and my best friends mom. Always needed to rub one out after i used to talk to her or go over to their place. Bigg DD tits on her and all round a nice lady.
 

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I went to the doctor today. He said my surgical wound is getting better. I got to see the resident there and I secretly admired her cute face and butt.
 

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One of my co-workers. She's married...and cute.
 
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