Tell me what I'm doing wrong! Helpful replies appreciated.

[midlife]

I've introduced myself several times. I feel like a ghost no one sees but ghosts don't throbbing erections do they? I do. I've been holding off for over ten days. A few hellos and a few acknowledgements is all i get. I so much to give in return. Try me!

 

[Hannah1]

I don’t think you are doing anything wrong. Maybe take an interest in the conversation first or directly ask if anyone would like a private chat? I know sometimes the chat moves fast and comments get missed.

 

[Silk_]

Dude ... I'm not professing to be any kind of expert on things - on what is right or what is wrong - but maybe a couple of things?

1. Situational awareness - This is not a dating site per se, so group photo's etc. probably not right. Also, means you won't need to keep explaining yourself
2. Take the time to have a look around at the forum threads etc. Depending on what you want, you'll get an idea of what is. and more importantly what isn't acceptable.
3. Don't take this the wrong way, but 'needy' isn't attractive .... Put yourself in someone's else's shoes reading what you're posting
4. As for 'connections' - see point one. There's all types of people on site, not everyone wants the same thing
5. There's a difference generally between chat and forums .... chat is transient, forgotten easily, forums tends to have a different feel by and large.

Laters

 

[midlife]

Thanks! That actually all makes sense.