Surfinglegend69
Member
Morning all,
Before I start, This isnt a sob story, more of an observation.
I have been on sites like this for a while now and genuinly enjoy the enviroment. The feeling that you are surrounded by like minded people and can have a pleasent conversation with the excitment of the thought that it could potentially lead to more.
But this is where my issues come into play. I always (and always will) think about who im talking to as a human being. I like to build a raport and get to know whoever it is that im talking too. It really gets the mind flowing and adds to the excitment but I also appreciate its each to their own.
I have found myself in a bit of a knot because I find that most comments are buried by pictures of guys dicks and random comments of lets fuck etc.
So the question is this. Do we join these sites with the same thing in mind and like it because we can skip through the normal questions you find on dating sites or is the old school etiquette still the way to go.
P.S I appreciate rejection is a huge part to play with this game and I can deal with that well.
My two cents
Thoughts???
Before I start, This isnt a sob story, more of an observation.
I have been on sites like this for a while now and genuinly enjoy the enviroment. The feeling that you are surrounded by like minded people and can have a pleasent conversation with the excitment of the thought that it could potentially lead to more.
But this is where my issues come into play. I always (and always will) think about who im talking to as a human being. I like to build a raport and get to know whoever it is that im talking too. It really gets the mind flowing and adds to the excitment but I also appreciate its each to their own.
I have found myself in a bit of a knot because I find that most comments are buried by pictures of guys dicks and random comments of lets fuck etc.
So the question is this. Do we join these sites with the same thing in mind and like it because we can skip through the normal questions you find on dating sites or is the old school etiquette still the way to go.
P.S I appreciate rejection is a huge part to play with this game and I can deal with that well.
My two cents
Thoughts???