Goose00
New Member
So...I just got married, and yet I'm on this site.
We've been together for 8 years and have made it through many trials and tribulations. We were high school sweethearts, then she went away to college, then I joined the Marines and lived in Cali for about 4 years. She studied abroad in Australia while I went on a hiatus in Key West for 6 months. I've even been deployed overseas twice and through all of that we've managed to make it work because we love each other.
However, for the past 8 years our sex life has gone further and further downhill. I had kept hope alive that things would get better when I finally got stationed back home (which I now am). They haven't. I love her but her sex drive is basically non-existant, despite my best efforts. I hate to use the cliche', but I really do have needs. I'm a believer that in a relationship, you are required to satisfy your partner in order to keep them faithful. I know most won't agree but it's my truth. I have an extremely high sex drive and I'm in need of some kind of outlet.
Which leads me to typing this to you all at 1:30 AM when I have to be up by 4 for work lol. I could get by with the bad/no sex, but it's the lack of intimacy that has brought me here. I just want to chat and say dirty things to dirty, like-minded women in order to satisfy my urges. It may not be right but it's the lesser of many evils.
Please resist the urge to give me advice. While I appreciate it, I'm sure I've done all that's in my power and am now taking steps to get us professional help. So worry not. Until then, I'll be here...
We've been together for 8 years and have made it through many trials and tribulations. We were high school sweethearts, then she went away to college, then I joined the Marines and lived in Cali for about 4 years. She studied abroad in Australia while I went on a hiatus in Key West for 6 months. I've even been deployed overseas twice and through all of that we've managed to make it work because we love each other.
However, for the past 8 years our sex life has gone further and further downhill. I had kept hope alive that things would get better when I finally got stationed back home (which I now am). They haven't. I love her but her sex drive is basically non-existant, despite my best efforts. I hate to use the cliche', but I really do have needs. I'm a believer that in a relationship, you are required to satisfy your partner in order to keep them faithful. I know most won't agree but it's my truth. I have an extremely high sex drive and I'm in need of some kind of outlet.
Which leads me to typing this to you all at 1:30 AM when I have to be up by 4 for work lol. I could get by with the bad/no sex, but it's the lack of intimacy that has brought me here. I just want to chat and say dirty things to dirty, like-minded women in order to satisfy my urges. It may not be right but it's the lesser of many evils.
Please resist the urge to give me advice. While I appreciate it, I'm sure I've done all that's in my power and am now taking steps to get us professional help. So worry not. Until then, I'll be here...