Question about online bdsm

[ellie07loves]

can a sub and a dom get like full satisfaction from being together online, i totally get the the emotions and feeling can be fulfilling online, feel the connection and everything, do stuff on command and everything but without actual touch is the mental side of d&s enough? x

 

[PhotographerGuy]

I believe you can have that type of connection with an online relationship, but you must have deep trust in each other to benefit. I think there are too many people online who claim to want the sub/dom connection but are using it just for the sexual side. For full satisfaction, there has to be an emotional connection that you don't get from just talking naughty; both people have to feel comfortable and willing to give in to the other.

 

[ellie07loves]

I believe you can have that type of connection with an online relationship, but you must have deep trust in each other to benefit. I think there are too many people online who claim to want the sub/dom connection but are using it just for the sexual side. For full satisfaction, there has to be an emotional connection that you don't get from just talking naughty; both people have to feel comfortable and willing to give in to the other.

thanks.. i get the deep trust and connection, having that much in each other must be amazing for both. I think what I didn't get is not all submissives are the same, some get more from physical stimulation others from just mental stimulation x

 

[PhotographerGuy]

thanks.. i get the deep trust and connection, having that much in each other must be amazing for both. I think what I didn't get is not all submissives are the same, some get more from physical stimulation others from just mental stimulation x

I agree with you about how people get stimulation.

I think that the type of stimulation will decide how deep you want the connection to be.