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If your in a relationship and ur online playing with others do you consider that to be cheating?
 
Very true, I personally wouldn't think it was, as there's no actual physical contact. On an emotional level, I don't know so much.
 
And even that depends on a few things... like if you were to roleplay some fantasy that could never possibly happen and you maintain that detachment, i dont really think its cheating..... kinda like reading sex stories by your favorite author.
 
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Do the majority of people role play? My personal experience of sexting is that I have formed a bond with that person. As time passes, things change, people part company. I still keep in contact and do genuinely care about them. Although the sexual activity has ceased.
 
Ssadow can I you something? Do you believe in online relationships? And can they be as euthinic as a so called real life relationship?
 
I think so, I mean cheating is emotional not physical I guess, I mean if your significant other thinks it's okay to have sex with other people and does not mind it, does that mean you're cheating, I guess cheating is betraying the trust of your partner after all, but then again that's my definition.
 
I think wen ur partner knows and is fine with it, then it's a kind of open relationship. So if you found a partner was maybe say just sexting. Would you end your relationship?
 
I would be extremely upset and depressed, idk what I would do, tbh I am so much of a nice guy that I would probably give another chance, but I know I wouldn't be so trusting and probably I would try to deattach myself just in case something else happens
 
It's actually kind of a weird philosophical question. I don't think anyone in their right mind would equate cybering or sexting with other people whilst in a relationship exactly at the same level as cheating with someone physically. But, it's definitely closer to cheating than simply watching porn.

It seems that, the whole point of sex chatting with someone else rather than just watching porn, is having the feeling that somebody is cumming for you and to what you're saying or doing rather than just cumming to images of two complete strangers humping. It's the same reason why people tend to like it when somebody moans their name during sex. Hell, it's the reason why cum tributes are a thing. The fact that it's interactive means that it can make you feel more attractive, sexier and more sought after than watching porn videos can. Therefore, there is more intimacy.

That being said, there's also a spectrum to it. I've had encounters with people wherein it was a simple back and forth of how we'd like to use each other's bodies at the moment. I've had ongoing RP buddies. And, I've had regular sexting and phone sex partners. The latter of the three is where it gets really mucky for me. If you're regularly cybering, sexting, etc. with a person; but, before or after you both get off, if you're talking about each other's lives and really getting to know each other, it's probably something to clear with your actual partner.
 
Some woman see porn as cheating according to recent polls on morning TV. 4% of woman didn't think that their partners having sex with others was cheating. Which confused completely.
 
i consider it Cheating . Cheating is not only physical , but if in your mind and heart you desire intimacy with another , then you should find someone you would rather be with and not have that desire . Humans are not animals and should be able to restrain their lust and their base instincts .
 
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