Why is being a Slut considered bad?

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  1. Shilpa42

    Shilpa42 Member

    Hi
    It has been long since i last posted and i want ask everyone something. Why is being a slut lablled as bring bad?
    I am self proclaimed whore and i dont care so why do people call me that like its bad?
     
    Last edited: Nov 16, 2019
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  2. Idlehands4u

    Idlehands4u New Member

    Personally I find it a turn on when a woman isn't afraid to want and take sex whenever and with whomever she wants. The way I see it is - if I needed something medical handled, I'd want an experienced doctor to handle it. If I want amazing sex, I think someone who loves it and is experienced sounds perfect!
     
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  3. BBW_Hannah

    BBW_Hannah Member

    I'm with you there. Been a confident slut since Highschool and very proud of it. Not an insult at all to me. Comes from generations ago when people were way too uptight.
     
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  4. MarcusBrody

    MarcusBrody Well-Known Member

    we love sluts and whores, we need more of you
     
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  5. Shilpa42

    Shilpa42 Member

    Tks...thats exactly what i mean
     
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  6. olderM

    olderM Well-Known Member

    Take no notice what anyone else says, you love sex..end of, life's WAY too short to take notice of cynics, or "uptight" ppl, carry on as you are, good to have honesty here ......
     
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  7. Zemce

    Zemce Member

    it's specifically a phrase that was used to put a woman down because that era of society was afraid of sex. same reason sex work of any type is looked down upon.
     
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  8. Misha000

    Misha000 Member

    I think these days behind closed doors you can be a slut. Let's face it, we all wanna be a good slut for our man. Thing is as ppl get more and more comfortable with porn and this kind of dirty sex, I think younger generations might not realise that it's a choice. It's not an entitlement to call women that name unless they are happy to be.
    So it's not bad, but times are such that we gotta still be respectful.
     
  9. Fireball69

    Fireball69 Well-Known Member

    I agree and it can all depend on circumstances and timing.
    If I said to my wife, “ Hey slut, Get me a Sandwich” I’d be looking for a visit to the A&E to get someone to take the knife out from between my shoulder blades.
    But, if she climbed on top of me in the middle of the night and put her tongue in my mouth and I said, “Ride my Cock you dirty slut” I’m pretty sure it wouldn’t end in a visit to A&E. lol
     
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  10. HashTagging

    HashTagging New Member

    I'm a guy ... I feel like I need to get that out of the way and in the open. I've heard lots of woman call other woman sluts, and it's ttypically because of jealousy. I've heard men do the same, and that's typically out of anger. What I find crazy is woman like to get off and guess what? Men like to get off too.

    Sex is a language we understand that feels amazing ... Unless we're not getting it. So my guess, and just like I remember in highschool woman and some guys making fun of longer pussy lips, I'm thinking to myself "those are the kind I like best" and a comment made about how wet one woman was, leaving a puddle on the floor as if it was a bad thing, and again I'm thinking and I think stated the obvious "that's how they should be"

    I find it incredibly sexy appealing desirable and I'm not sure I could get enough. So, with that said ... Slut is not a bad thing when responsible. It's like the long pussy lip statement and puddle in the floor statement. Men, at least myself, love woman who love to get off.
     
  11. BustyBimbo

    BustyBimbo New Member

    Obviously I don't mind being called a slut, bimbo, whore or something like it. Normally when a man uses one of those words while talking to me, he uses it in a sexualised way - and for me that's very enjoyable. Sure, even in these circumstances it is rather meant in a downgrading way, not an uplifting one. But I still don't mind. I love having sex, with many men, even more or less unknown ones. So to some extend I am a slut, which means calling me one isn't wrong.

    Dirty talk is - when done right - a massive turn one for me. So if - for example - a stranger walks by me, looks at my body and my outfit and then responds to what he's seeing with an honest "Damn, you got a fine ass, slut" - why should I get offended by that? It is clearly meant as a compliment. It may not be an overblown one, but it is still a compliment.

    To some extend I have embraced being a slut - so to me the term and the label isn't bad. It's a part of me. And I don't think it's wrong when more women embrace this identity. Maybe this way the label will lose it's rather negative connotation.
     
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  12. MarcusBrody

    MarcusBrody Well-Known Member

    That!! we all love little slut like you!! I always uses those words in a sexual context. During sex or sex games, yes I use them in a downgrading way because it is a turn on. THat does not mean I consider women inferior, it is sex games. I would never use it outside sex. But it is a turn on to degrade the sexual partner definitively
     

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