You shouldn't HAVE to ask them to do it if they are real men, satisfaction comes both ways, to please and BE pleased,Guys always say that, but Im not sure anyone does it irl. Is it just older guys who do it, or am I just a magnet for the selfish ones?? Ive dated 5 guys (all under 29), and not one ever went down there. And, I mean, Im super-clean, always smooth shaved, and I try really hard to be fun and giving. Im not one to ask for something like that. Do I need to?