Sexting Etiquette ;)

Fuckray said:
I think I can break it down. Some would be more simple than others; but ultimately I would have to say it all varies on how you and you partner stimulate each others experience.

Do
  1. Take Turns
  2. Wait your turn
  3. Be descriptive
  4. Express your feelings
  5. Be realistic
  6. Get to know each other and learn
  7. Flirt and Foreplay First
  8. Tease each other
  9. Work you way up to the more kinky, rough and Taboo experience
  10. Make suggestions - Not during the moment; but later when you're not sexting try talking about ways to improve each others experience.

Don't
  1. Be impatient
  2. Insulting - Unless its part of the role play
  3. Spell correcting - If you know what they mean but see they misspelled don't interrupt the moment to correct them
  4. Be simple - Don't just respond with "mmm yes" or "oh baby" after they have given you a paragraph.
  5. Jump in the deep end - Some people think they just want to do rape, gang bang, incest, and or bondage from the get go when they can't even handle making out in the back of a car.
  6. Vanish - If you have to stop for some reason, say your sorry, don't just stop and disappear.

I'm sure there is more that can be added to this; but this is as basic of a breakdown as I can get
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Yes, this
 
Irene_Adler said:
I was chatting to someone who said "I don't know how to sext properly."
So it got me thinking...does anybody know? Is there such a thing as a "proper" way to sext? What are the dos and don'ts in your opinion?
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Like 'most' things in life, being respectful and not making personal insults are basic. Sexting is for mature people. So, if one person says please stop, or I don't like that and the other person continues, then you are dealing with an intellectually immature person and you would be best off to just drop it. Sexting can be exciting. Your thoughts and then the anticipation of a response and further dialogue. Just proper etiquette.
 
Fuckray said:
I think I can break it down. Some would be more simple than others; but ultimately I would have to say it all varies on how you and you partner stimulate each others experience.

Do
  1. Take Turns
  2. Wait your turn
  3. Be descriptive
  4. Express your feelings
  5. Be realistic
  6. Get to know each other and learn
  7. Flirt and Foreplay First
  8. Tease each other
  9. Work you way up to the more kinky, rough and Taboo experience
  10. Make suggestions - Not during the moment; but later when you're not sexting try talking about ways to improve each others experience.

Don't
  1. Be impatient
  2. Insulting - Unless its part of the role play
  3. Spell correcting - If you know what they mean but see they misspelled don't interrupt the moment to correct them
  4. Be simple - Don't just respond with "mmm yes" or "oh baby" after they have given you a paragraph.
  5. Jump in the deep end - Some people think they just want to do rape, gang bang, incest, and or bondage from the get go when they can't even handle making out in the back of a car.
  6. Vanish - If you have to stop for some reason, say your sorry, don't just stop and disappear.

I'm sure there is more that can be added to this; but this is as basic of a breakdown as I can get
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Fuckray said:
I think I can break it down. Some would be more simple than others; but ultimately I would have to say it all varies on how you and you partner stimulate each others experience.

Do
  1. Take Turns
  2. Wait your turn
  3. Be descriptive
  4. Express your feelings
  5. Be realistic
  6. Get to know each other and learn
  7. Flirt and Foreplay First
  8. Tease each other
  9. Work you way up to the more kinky, rough and Taboo experience
  10. Make suggestions - Not during the moment; but later when you're not sexting try talking about ways to improve each others experience.

Don't
  1. Be impatient
  2. Insulting - Unless its part of the role play
  3. Spell correcting - If you know what they mean but see they misspelled don't interrupt the moment to correct them
  4. Be simple - Don't just respond with "mmm yes" or "oh baby" after they have given you a paragraph.
  5. Jump in the deep end - Some people think they just want to do rape, gang bang, incest, and or bondage from the get go when they can't even handle making out in the back of a car.
  6. Vanish - If you have to stop for some reason, say your sorry, don't just stop and disappear.

I'm sure there is more that can be added to this; but this is as basic of a breakdown as I can get
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That is very well articulated and an excellent set of guidelines to adhere to. Nice Job!!
 
Most of what I would say has been said before. I cannot say this, enough, though.
Respect is key. If you don't show respect towards others, in ANY situation, not just sexting or whatever, they will not show you any, either. Also, whatever etiquette you would say is proper for a regular conversation would likely be a good start for sexting, just saying.
 
Use a lot of really aggressive cliche porno buzzwords with absolutely no emotional or erotic sentiment. Let her know that not only do you want to fuck her in ways which will be unenjoyable for her and almost certainly cause long term physical problems, but you want to do it right at this very fucking second. Then slam her with a poorly lit closeup of your pasty unkempt junk and demand she return the favour immediately. If she doesnt respond just keep trying. She'll come around.

Trust me fellas you'll be thanking me when your drowning in pussy.
 
The Zen of Sexting


1. It's little about you, mostly about them.

2. Write to feed all of their five senses.

3. Feel what they should feel, and you'd feel them.

4. Gain pleasure from giving pleasure.

5. Be in the moment and discover/experiment. Novelty is the essence of Impact.

6. Go where physical limitations don't let you : towards a detailed, multisensual, noiseless perspective.

7. You should be breathing softly and feeling ecstatic at the end of it.

8. If nothing worked, be fine and let it go.
Learn and wait for another opportunity.

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